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High School? …Don’t Know Her Anymore

As Seen in TrueStar

By Amber N. Anderson 

I remember the first day she walked through the doors at Kenwood Academy. She just knew she had to buss a fit for the first day of school. I don’t remember exactly…

Let Him Go

By Amber N. Anderson 

Ladies, I feel like we all have had that guy in our life that we simply for whatever reason can't let go of him. No matter what he does or how many times our friends tell…

The Value of Loneliness

By Amber N. Anderson

A couple weeks ago my friend sent me a seven-part series titled, ‘#Relationship Goals’, by Pastor Michael Todd at Transformation Church, located in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He taught what it truly means to have a healthy…

The Importance of Sisterhood

By Amber N. Anderson 

In today’s society sisterhood is often not as valued as it should be especially amongst Black women. This past weekend I hosted a Friendsgiving with a few of my closest friends. Anyone who knows me…

Let’s Talk About Sex

By Amber N. Anderson 

The ‘birds and the bees’ talk is usually the most uncomfortable conversation that parents have with their teens. It normally isn’t that uncomfortable for males, it nine times out ten is a more honest and…

Tips For Dealing With Senioritis

By Amber N. Anderson 

It’s officially ‘senior szn’ (season) for the class of 2019, while many of us are excited to embark on this new journey on the path to college. Majority of us are struggling with trying to…

The Reality of High School Relationships

By Amber N. Anderson 

Growing up watching tv and movies, I’m sure every girl thought that when they got to high school they were going to find their Troy Bolton like in ‘High School Musical’ or maybe you thought…